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Friends ex is harassing family members

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twentytwentyfour2024 · 28/11/2024 20:28

Hi my friends ex has LOTS of screenshots of her admitting to texting other men hours after they split and also admitting to doing sexual things on the internet when she was single. He also has her admitting to a lot of other intimate things. She got a DNA test when she had a baby to this ex because he wasn't interested in the baby so she thought this would put his paranoia to bed and help them bond (he suggested and demanded the DNA test so she agreed for the reasons I just mentioned). He is now saying to her dad he needed the DNA to prove the child was his! He has sent her dad lots of messages telling him his daughter is a whore basically and is threatening to send all the things he has on her like the voice note of admitting to doing sexual things online etc. what should she do! Is this illegal??

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frozendaisy · 28/11/2024 20:46

If it's all true, she should tell her dad first and stop ex's power over her.

Own the truth no matter how bad it seems now this is surely worse, better she has control over the dialect than someone else.

Anotherfrozenpizzafortea · 28/11/2024 20:49

She should report it to the police!

Chocolateteabag · 28/11/2024 21:47

Tell the police

Tell her dad - then if the ex sends stuff - it's up to her Dad if he wants to read or see it - he can just delete them unread

Tell him to do one after this

But do tell the police - what a complete arse

twentytwentyfour2024 · 29/11/2024 18:27

Chocolateteabag · 28/11/2024 21:47

Tell the police

Tell her dad - then if the ex sends stuff - it's up to her Dad if he wants to read or see it - he can just delete them unread

Tell him to do one after this

But do tell the police - what a complete arse

He sent the messages and it's caused world war 3

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