To shave or not to shave

[Northernluce]

Have date number 3 tonight with a lad I’ve been seeing. Normally that means I will be getting lucky if we go back to his 🤞🤞.
What are the grooming expectations down there these days since it’s been a while since I’ve been in this situation.

Full bush these days

You do you.

He does, take it or leave it.

Fully shaven.

I'd trim short, but lots of people are still into the creepy bald look. It's your hair though, style it as you wish.

As above, do whatever you like and he takes it or leaves it.

A vajazzled merkin.

Whatever your preference is. I dislike a full bush but I wouldn’t spend a lifetime waxing for a bloke.

Your body, your choice.

There aren’t any rules anymore. Everything from full hedging to the other end of the spectrum is fine. Do whatever you normally do. Otherwise you’ll just be uncomfortable anyway.

Fully off, front to back.

I got an advert for straighteners in the middle of this thread. Maybe that’s a sign!

Whatever you prefer and if he doesn't like it he isn't the right man for you.

If you were going to shave, and haven't already done before this evening - well, my skin usually needs a little more time to settle.

But as everyone says, do what you're comfortable with, and if he's not delighted to be there anyway, then he should be left out in the cold wilderness.

Good luck! 😉

Do what you want to do.

There should be no grooming expectations from a man. It’s your body and your choice.

From a male perspective, don’t care , but do prefer some hair down there

Thanks for all the replies. Unfortunately we didn’t get that far after the date. So I shaved for no reason next time I won’t bother with that and he can take it how it is