Is dh being OTT ?

[Glassboobs]

Morning,

so this month has been a killer financially. Vets bills, mot etc. I get paid on Friday and next month will be fine. Ds 14 has an envelope in the cupboard with £400 in from birthday money etc. we are going to pay it on next week as we’re all off for the week.

yesterday morning before I left for work I noticed that I had zero left in my account, I took £100 from the envelope and left a note stuck to fridge saying that I had borrowed £100 and would put it back on 25th. Didn’t think any more of it.

Can home last night and dh was really shitty with me, claiming that it’s theft as I didn’t ask!! Ds couldn’t care less. Im
quite upset by his comments and I don’t see the big deal! Aibu?

He is BU. He could have asked to have a conversation with you about why he doesn’t like it, but it’s HIM who doesn’t like it, not your DS, so he really shouldn’t have been off with you

I can only assume that some posters here saying the Ops stolen have never been short of money, even for a few days. The Op left a note to say she'd taken it and when it would go back, no thief leaves an IOU.

I agree with your DH.

I've been short of money.

If I ever took money from my parents without asking I'd be a lot worse off! And they'd never do it to me.

There are plenty of threads about teenagers taking money from parents.

Would it be different if your DS had taken £100 from your purse, OP? How?

I don't think DH is OTT, no.