hi I’m after some advice really, I had a call from the school today and the rang me to say at lunch time my son was touched improperly by another child whilst playing outside I was abit shocked didn’t really know was to say they rang around half 5 said they had dealt with it put him on time out and then in for lunch. I come off the phone to ask my son who is 8 he said he was running got chased caught and he forcefully thrust his fingers into his penis and grabbed his balls really hard and that he told the girls in his class near by this is what you are going to get and then proceeded to touch 2 other girls in his class in the same way a complete contrast to what I was told on the phone. He then said this is not the first time this boy has touched him in the past. For example on the play field he can recall and in the cloakroom trying to show everyone his penis in the changing room in p.e. It does not sound like it’s a frequent Occuring thing and that he is touching my son on a daily basis or anything like that but my son has openly said after telling me this he does not want to go to school tomorrow and feels safer at home as he doesn’t want to be touched like this again from said boy. This boy was also talking about the girls “big fat juicy vagina” and that his mum has one too and the whole situation doesn’t sit right with me he showed me how he was touching him on my hand and it was more forceful/ hurting his genetils. not sure what to do about this situation I don’t feel the school has handled this properly at all. I have decided on not making him go in as he is upset about this I’m not sure if I’m over reacting to this situation but I also don’t feel comfortable sending him in when he’s upset this boy is also a friend to my son and has additional needs but I am completely stuck on what I should do I feel like the school have kind of brushed it under and I’m stuck with my child who is refusing to go in please does anyone have experience with this.