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Have I made myself look a bit like a stalker?

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autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 13:19

My ex and I had a bad breakup 4 years ago.
We removed each other from all social media.
He deleted me from his Snapchat so I couldn't see anything.
Anyway a few months ago I could see his stories again (with the option to add as a friend ) because I still followed him and he was posting public.
Anyway for a couple of weeks I looked at his story (at the time didn't realise why I could see them )
Then I unfollowed him so he I didn't see and he couldn't see me watching them.

Anyway he still was posting public and I wasn't clicking on them (with Snapchat now you can see people you may know stories without being friends if they post public )
Sunday night I had been out for a few drinks and clicked on his story (so he will of seen I watched it )

Have I made myself look like a stalker ?
I mean it was public and anyone could click
If he didn't want people to watch he would of
Put it friends only wouldn't he ?

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autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 13:24

There's not really anything I Could do not to see it if he doesn't go private

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autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 13:33

Anyone ,

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LushLemonTart · 01/10/2024 13:39

Why are you clicking? Just block.

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autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 13:50

On Snapchat now it shows you people who you might know stories
It was there to see

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autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 14:13

So I didn't actually search him
He popped up along with others and I just clicked on it

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HundredMilesAnHour · 01/10/2024 14:17

Why are you clicking on his stories? Just ignore him.

LushLemonTart · 01/10/2024 14:19

Ok

Maybe do something else to distract you

autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 14:19

They are public
So you can see lots of people
Normally I can see them but don't click
Sunday I just clicked as I had a drink and curious
No I'm worried I look like a stalker

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LushLemonTart · 01/10/2024 14:24

Don't worry about it. If he contacts you just say you were being nosey.

autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 14:49

He probably wouldn't even notice anyway
Or even check
I think when it's a ex it makes you a bit crazy

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Chocolatebuttonsandprosseco · 01/10/2024 14:53

It’s been four years, maybe time to move on, as this isn’t just about you looking, it’s also now about you concerned about what he thinks about you.

autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 14:58

It's not that I haven't moved on I have
I'm aware it's only Snapchat
Obviously as I'm a ex I Didn't want him to think me simply viewing meant anything

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Chocolatebuttonsandprosseco · 01/10/2024 15:12

autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 14:58

It's not that I haven't moved on I have
I'm aware it's only Snapchat
Obviously as I'm a ex I Didn't want him to think me simply viewing meant anything

But that’s the thing,you’re now over thinking what he’s thinking. Just move on. Forget him

autumndaysareere · 01/10/2024 15:57

I like to think I've moved on
Just overthinking ha ha

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