I want to end my relationship with DD's dad....
In a relationship, but live apart, he's around 1 day at weekends for DD (2). I've wanted to end it a while but haven't because I don't want DD going to his house (without me)...he's not looked after her on his own before (well for no more than half an hour!), I don't feel I'm being unreasonable in my not wanting her to go. I would like them to have a relationship though, as I say he's never looked after her and can have a short temper (he wouldn't harm her, but having grown up with a dad with a temper I'd rather not subject her to that if I didn't haVe to). Would I have a choice not to send her? I know contact centers are available, but is it a bit much?
I'm opening myself up to roasting here, but what are the best options for Dd? That's my concern.