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Sad encounter

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VittysCardigan · 06/10/2023 01:06

Been out for drinks with friends this eve. Walking through High St for a cab (alone) young lad on bike stopped me & asked for a hug. I was naturally v wary. Told him it was a strange request. Turns out he was only 18, Turkish & i reminded him of his mum. Has little contact with her & has been here since he was 14. He is living at ymca & at local college studying engineering. Didn't ask for anything other than a hug, chatted to him for about 10 mins, advised speaking to college Councillor & gp as he seemed so low. There was no bad vibes to this at all. No trying to get anything from me in the way of money or anything else. Tried to advise & boost him. Not sure why i'm posting. Just hope someone would talk to my DS in the same way i guess.

OP posts:
ohdamnitjanet · 06/10/2023 07:59

VittysCardigan · 06/10/2023 07:41

It was in a very public place with other people around. I didn't immediately hug him, i talked to him first. No, my pockets were not picked.

You’re lovely @VittysCardigan, I hope someone is so kind to my ds one day.

MollyRover · 06/10/2023 08:05

I have some Turkish friends and something I have noticed is that they're quite tactile, especially with family so maybe not as odd as pp think.

Was very kind of you to chat and give him a hug op. I'm glad that it was an innocent encounter, I would have been very wary.

Dolallypip · 06/10/2023 09:02

Poontangle · 06/10/2023 05:39

Have you checked your pockets, OP?

This was my first thought too sadly.

I hope it was true and you cheered him up though!

AuntieMarys · 06/10/2023 10:24

Poontangle · 06/10/2023 07:55

He was very lucky in his choice of 'mumalike'. A lot of very motherly looking women would have maced him.

🤣

flufferknutter · 06/10/2023 12:04

😭 that's really sad. I think I'd have adopted him right there and then!

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