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Abuser being let out of prison.

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Lostmynames · 15/09/2023 21:59

Dds abuser is coming out of prison soon. Its a fuck up really when he first went away for hurting her. He was given 9 months. He was meant to do 4. But he keeps breaking restraining orders. Making threats etc. In all he's ended up doing 2.5 years. In-between he's been out 2 or 3 weeks. But then gos back to prison.

It's had a massive impact on dd and the rest of us. Dd has not been able to live her life.

I want him to vanish or end up in prison for many years. But not for something tjat fuvks up somone else's life.

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Lostmynames · 16/09/2023 08:47

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Lostmynames · 16/09/2023 10:27

I pray to God that he leaves her alone this time. Its just repeat repeat over and over and it's dd that suffers. Proffesonsls running round like headless chickens. Massive panic. Because he's fucking with people's heads.

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tescocreditcard · 16/09/2023 10:29

I'm sorry to hear this OP.

Has your daughter been moved to a place he doesn't know about now?

Lostmynames · 16/09/2023 10:32

tescocreditcard · 16/09/2023 10:29

I'm sorry to hear this OP.

Has your daughter been moved to a place he doesn't know about now?

Yeah she's been moved. But he tells professionals he knows where she is.

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tescocreditcard · 16/09/2023 12:03

How do you know what he says to professionals?

Lostmynames · 16/09/2023 14:59

tescocreditcard · 16/09/2023 12:03

How do you know what he says to professionals?

Because he will tell his probation officer. It then has to be oaseed to social worker. When then tells dd in meetings etc .

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tescocreditcard · 16/09/2023 17:02

I doubt they'll let him out early if he's telling his probation officer "I know where she lives". Is he a bit thick or what?

Lostmynames · 16/09/2023 17:27

tescocreditcard · 16/09/2023 17:02

I doubt they'll let him out early if he's telling his probation officer "I know where she lives". Is he a bit thick or what?

This is past stuff that I'm talking about. But he does it every time. Within 24/48 hours of being out. Then he breaks restraining order by tracking her via social media. Makes threats either that way or via a professional. Last time he broke it over 100 times. He does this then there's a warrant out fir his arrest he gos on the run fir a few days. Gets caught. Ends up back in prison. Yes definitely a bit thick

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