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Help with outfits please

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gyi3 · 15/04/2023 08:50

Need smart-casual outfits for work for warmer weather.
I'm so fussy and self-conscious that I'm finding it really difficult to find what to wear to the office in the summer (I'm in a medical professional role).
I thought about midi dresses but I have skinny legs/ankles (not to mention very pale although I do have gradual tanner that I'm going to building into my routine) and very skinny/bony/veiny feet. I hate my toes so sandles are a no go too
Help!!!

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midgemadgemodge · 15/04/2023 09:04

Sone information on your body shape and size might also be useful

gyi3 · 15/04/2023 09:47

I'm thin (size 8) and 5'6. I have long thin arms, pretty much flat chested if that helps

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gyi3 · 15/04/2023 09:50

I'm also in my early 30s so don't want to dress too old or too young either

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Aixellency · 15/04/2023 09:51

I admit I’m slightly unclear about what the issue is! Dresses and sandals aren’t compulsory for Summer - there are plenty of other choices.

Personally I long for slim legs and tiny ankles. And everyone has toes - no one is particularly noticing the details of anyone else’s, as long as they’re clean and at least minimally groomed. Also surely open toe-d footwear might be problematic in a medical setting. It wouldn’t be my first choice.

Anyway - suggestions:

Trousers:

https://communityclothing.co.uk/collections/womens-trousers-chinos/products/womens-work-trousers-tan?variant=40358682755126

Shoes:

https://www.miista.com/en-GB/taissa-brown-courts

Women's Work Trousers - Tan

Style & Fit - High waist, wide leg, flat front - Slant side pockets, two rear pockets - Zip fly, button fastening at waist Fabric - 215g 100% cotton drill Made - Cut & Sewn Blackburn Lancashire Care Instructions - Machine Wash 40 degrees - Iron...

https://communityclothing.co.uk/collections/womens-trousers-chinos/products/womens-work-trousers-tan?variant=40358682755126

SausageRoll2020 · 15/04/2023 09:52

Linen trousers and a light cotton shirt (with short / rolled up sleeves if required for your role).

Also, I highly doubt anyone is looking at your ankles in shock at their skinniness 😱 if you want to wear a midi dress just wear one.

Aixellency · 15/04/2023 09:54

There’s no such thing as ‘too old’ or ‘too young’. Most adults are perfectly capable of choosing clothes they like, and can afford, that fit them and are suitable for their purpose. That is all that need be considered.

gyi3 · 15/04/2023 09:56

My job is non-clinical (office based) so no practical considerations required

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gyi3 · 15/04/2023 10:00

@Aixellency thanks. There isn't an issue as such. Just looking for ideas on what to wear to the office 🤷🏽‍♀️
We all want what we don't have I suppose. I long to be curvy. I used to be a chunkier size 10 and I miss it so much. Was much more confident in my own skin. Now I just feel like a gangly stick insect. Thin ankles and long feet are not pretty IMO. My toes are almost deformed so no nail polish or pedicure is going to make it better unfortunately.
Thank you for the suggestions. I'll try those

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Aixellency · 15/04/2023 10:21

Okay - so this is more an issue with your self-perception and confidence than actual clothing?

You don’t say if your weight loss is through illness or some other cause. I hope whatever it is - is now under control?

You don’t have to buy the clothes people link! I was merely suggesting a couple of brands you might not be familiar with.

PinkPondQueen · 15/04/2023 10:40

I'd go for midi shirt dresses (F&F at Tesco have some lovely ones in atm) with closed-toe espadrille wedges. And linen trousers with floaty blouses!

gyi3 · 16/04/2023 09:40

www.newlook.com/uk/womens/footwear/shoes/white-canvas-flatform-trainers/p/853598310
Do you think I could wear these? Or too casual? Was thinking with midi dress or skirt. Others wear DMs in the office and apparently DM sandals in the summer

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