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Should I provide entertainment for barbecue?

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Notsuretoputit · 12/04/2023 22:18

I’m hosting a barbecue on the bank holiday weekend. A dozen or so people coming. I’m a bit worried that because I’ll be busy with the barbecue, the guests will be bored and think I’m neglecting them. Should I be providing some sort of entertainment, and if so, what? Or am I overthinking it and they’ll just entertain themselves chatting to each other?

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Dotcheck · 12/04/2023 22:20

They’ll chat- it’s fine.
But have everything prepped before so you can just bbq when everyone arrives

ODFOx · 12/04/2023 22:21

12 people should be able to chat. Introduce them on arrival; I'm sure it'll be fine.

SpringIntoChaos · 12/04/2023 22:29

Just have a great playlist sorted and you'll be fine 🙌🏼

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OMGitsnotgood · 12/04/2023 22:41

We've hosted many barbecues and have never provided entertainment. I agree with PP, put time into planning so you are not spending the whole time cooking.
What are you planning on serving?

UsingChangeofName · 12/04/2023 22:45

No, a BBQ is an occasion when you mingle and chat with people.
People don't need to be 'entertained'

mathanxiety · 12/04/2023 22:46

YY to a playlist.

00100001 · 12/04/2023 22:47

What kind of entertainment have you ever had at any BBQ...ever? Apart from maybe some music playlist/radio? And even then probably 50% don't have music.

It's an informal meal that's all... People will chat and eat and drink.

TheSandgroper · 12/04/2023 23:43

I just chuck the radio on. Not loudly.

CC4712 · 12/04/2023 23:51

Are the all randoms who don't know each other? Are there couples/friends/colleagues in the group? Either way, what sort of 'entertainment' have YOU ever had at a BBQ? I'd love to know?

Generally, there might be music on quietly in the background so people can chat. Early 20's a friend had a hired spa bath thing in the garden, but I think that was a birthday rather than just a BBQ.

Prep as much as you can beforehand, ask a friend to help, get friends to help BBQ etc so you aren't consumed by standing over the BBQ the whole day.

Mammyloveswine · 13/04/2023 00:51

Music.., plenty booze/nibbles for whilst the bbq is cooking.., we had a great bbq for my husbands 30th!

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