Why is is on MN if there's a poster going through a hard time. That could be Domestic violence, housing, money, relationship difficulties anything really. Posters give their advice and suggestions op may come back and say well I can't do that as the system does not work like that. Or they may say I have done that but the waiting list is very long. Etc . Then posters get frustrated with the op and get onto her. Accuse her of not taking advice. There are comment's such as you have had lots of advice, but there seens to be an excuse for you not to take anyone's advice. When in fact there probably is a good reason why she can't take the advice.