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Please help me sleep!!

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8e88e · 25/03/2023 09:43

So seemingly out of nowhere I have started to struggle sleeping. I can fall asleep fine but I wake up after three hours and then I can't get back to sleep. The first few nights this happened I didn't really care because I thought 'oh well we all have a few bad nights every now and again' and I didn't let it bother me.

However it's now been two weeks and it's starting to really affect me. I just want to go back to normal. I have tried sominex, amitriptyline (10mg), and melatonin gummies. None of them have worked.

I am worrying that my body has got into a new routine now where it just wakes up after three hours out of habit. I need to break the cycle so I called the doctor's to ask if they can prescribe even just a couple of nights worth of proper sleeping tablets to put me in a deep enough sleep to get through the night, or at the very least allow me to get back to sleep after waking at 2am. She said no but has given me some type of antihistamine used for anxiety called Hydroxyzine (10mg) I took one last night and it didn't work at all. In fact I woke up at 1am instead of 2.

I don't know why this has happened and I don't know how to get out of it. I asked the doctor as well if there was any kind of sleep therapy available and she said no. Told me to have a hot bath and some warm milk before bed. But the problem with that is getting to sleep is fine, a hot bath at 8pm isn't going to help me when I wake up at 2am.

So my question is, is there anything else I can try? I can't listen to podcasts or calming music etc as I do need silence to be able to fall asleep. I have heard magnesium helps, as does 5HTP. Can I take both of these things at the same time? I don't mean together at the exact same time, but can I take 5HTP if I am also taking a magnesium supplement?

If anyone has been through similar please share your tips on how you got out of this cycle!

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Redcherries · 25/03/2023 11:07

Are you possibly approaching menopause? Hrt really helped my sleep.

I had a very similar pattern, I’d wake in pure panic every night after a couple of hours. I learnt to play mind games, lots of ideas if you Google. The trick is to have your brain working on something mundane and easy until you drift back off rather than your brain roaming randomly keeping you mentally active. I did this for about 5 years until I was finally old enough for the dr to prescribe hrt (early menopause).

It sucks though, I hope you get it figured out.

Standbyguest · 25/03/2023 11:09

Melatonin (can buy online from US) and a CBD gummie half an hour before bed helps me.

8e88e · 25/03/2023 11:16

@Redcherries I don't think so as I am only 29 so I hope not. I find that when I think about anything at all I can't sleep. I have to completely clear my mind and think of nothing. Which I have been doing.. but it's not working anymore once I wake up. I will have a Google though, thanks for your suggestion!

@Standbyguest I have the melatonin gummies which don't help unfortunately. However I haven't tried CBD so I will have a look into that. Thank you

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Standbyguest · 25/03/2023 12:26

Are the melatonin gummies pure melatonin? You need around 5mg, and can only get prescribed in UK.

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