I've NC for this because it's bloody ridiculous and I know it, but it also won't stop!!!
I am happily married, my husband is handsome, kind, generous, a great dad, works hard. Honestly I adore him and we've been married for 12 years. I'm nearly 40.
It feels like several times a week now I've had a nice dream that involves a work colleague. Said work colleague is someone I get on really well with on the odd occasion we work together (may have the odd day at work where we work in close proximity for a day but that's it) but is definitely wrapped up in his own relationship and new baby, there is no hint of extra marital anything at all. Just to add there are also other people at work I get on really well and work closely with but I don't dream about them!
They vary from sex dreams to adventure dreams, you name it, but they're never bad dreams if that makes sense. It's pissing me off and I want them to stop! I KNOW they're just dreams - ridiculous! I feel like I've been cheating on my DH when I have them, and I love him more than anything!