Coping with a friendship loss

[Lillyandfeather]

NC for this post.

Recently lost a group of friends (ultimately been pushed out and cut off) and I'm just struggling to come to terms with it. My OH is still friends with all their partners so it's not like I can just ignore them and walk away from it. One of their birthday is coming up this weekend and found out I haven't been invited. Any advice how to move on and just let go and not give a shit?

Is there no hope for a reconciliation?

Its hurtful op and the not knowing why. Im finding some behaviours weird too lately from friends. Cool tones in messages no meetups. Think I cant be assed with it all!!

Aw this hurts. I’m a bit further down the line than you with my friend who ghosted me. It hurt so much in the beginning, then I found my anger. Does your DH have strong links with the group? Do you have any understanding of why they did this? I would advise you to make an effort with other friends and this will hopefully help you to care less about them