I'm looking for the holy grail of cycling shorts (mid thigh) which also are heavy flow (stress incontinence alas, also peri with unpredictable cycle) and a bit of control for my flabby belly.
I bought modibodi ones which tick 2 boxes but too stretchy so no flab support. Any ideas? No upper budget within reason for perfection 
This combo has got to be perfect for most middle aged women