NC for this
my sister is 31 and has a 2 year old daughter. When my niece was conceived she was in a relationship with a violent man who she had a harassment order out against. She also managed to get a council house with help from womens aid, his family decorated it and they moved in together, social services and womens aid had no idea he was still around. An argument happened one night and the police were called and he was arrested.
my sister spends her life on tiktok. Her whole life is documented on it. She has about 60000 followers who know every bit of her business. She does not work due to anxiety. I don’t believe she’s half an anxious as she says she is, she is constantly shopping, posts about 100 selfies a day, parties at the weekend, the council workers take her bins out and cuts her grass as she told them she can’t do it herself, I’m sorry but she has totally hammed up her issues in order not to work, she’s just lazy.
The ex boyfriend was stabbed and despite us pleading with her she decided to let him stay over to see my niece. We told social services. They had a word, she said he wouldn’t be around, it all kicked off, police called etc.
Then she got together with a new boyfriend. Decided he was too nice, started seeing his best friend and within a week he had moved in. All over tiktok for validation from idiots. Pictures of him in bed with my niece.
well it turns out the new boyfriend was released from prison just a few weeks ago for being involved in a drive by shooting. We informed social services, nothing has happened. We are at the end of our tethers with her, she’s an absolute idiot who seems to value her tiktok followers more than her daughters well-being. What else can we do.