Got engaged at NY, I'm 33 so want to get moving.
Between us we have a £20k budget.
DP would like a big wedding. He's very social and has a lots of friends.
I am not so fussed, I would like a church ceremony and probably have more family I'd like to invite.
Altogether it means that it will either have to be tiny, which neither of us really want, or huge, which is just so way beyond budget it seems ridiculous.