Watching porn

[sexualhealingisgoodforme]

Just wondering how many females consider themselves straight but like and get off on girl on girl action?

I'm female and married to my DH but would like to introduce watching and having sex whilst watching porn.

This is something we've never done and I'm wondering how to approach it as I think he might be quite shocked.

I would suggest you ask to have this moved to the Sex topic.

He may well be shocked but I would wager he will love it 😀

I used to think watching porn was ok for consenting adults.

Then I started listening to women who had managed to escape the porn industry. I heard them talking about the coercion, assaults, refusal to accept boundaries.

It is impossible to know whether you are watching a woman who has knowingly agreed to be filmed (but could still be being abused) or a woman who has been blackmailed or otherwise forced to take part in the film.

Listen to the women talking about how Andrew Tate treated them (just one recent example).

Porn is filmed sexual assault.

The question of whether porn is appropriate/immoral/etc is another discussion.

So that aside, if you're into it, and it gets you excited, go for it!

Do you talk to your partner during sex? Ie about things you like, don't like? If you do, you could always try talking a little about girl on girl, and how the idea turns you on. Dep on his reaction, you could then suggest watching some together. I'd make it clear you just mean watching though, otherwise he'll get ideas about threesomes!

Enjoy... 😉