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Neighbours were making noise now stopped but still feel dreadful

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Lulubye · 18/01/2023 17:00

I need to get this off my chest and ask for some advice as to how to cope with this. Basically we have really loud neighbours coming back in the AM partying etc. We have been around loads of times and nothing changed but since the last time I went they have only done this a few times that I am aware of which is amazing obviously. My problem is the damage is already done and I dont feel very well in myself. I am a new mom as well which doesnt help because I am getting hardly any sleep.

My question is does anyone have advice on how to get over neighbour noise?

I am worried it will start up again in the summer as well I am always thinking what if. The previous neighbours were extremely loud in the AM too so this isnt anything new and I feel its probably started with them and now I feel like will it ever get better?

I can't even enjoy my house anymore and it sounds pathetic but its so crap.

Thanks in advance

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ImInACage · 18/01/2023 17:12

We had this when our children were babies/toddlers. It was honestly awful, so I have every sympathy for you. The living on edge, waiting for the partying to start is torturous. We got to the point where we dreaded weekends. They owned their house, so there was no landlord to complain to and had we complained to the council, they would have shown up on record when it came to selling.

Unfortunately in our case, nothing we did resolved it and the situation escalated until we sold up and moved, at a loss, to a lovely deaf family, who obviously weren't bothered by neighbour noise. I wish I had more advice, I'm sorry.

Lulubye · 18/01/2023 19:51

This is the problem I am constantly on edge! Yeah I think if we do sell up i want to move to a detached at least! And that is the perfect people to sell to lol! But sad that you had to do it. But you are right about selling it will show up :( they are council but i dont want to go dowj that road again! We have moved our bedroom already but I am literally sat here on edge as our living room is right next to them. Its not their fault the walls are thin but you would think to not do that during a weekday! And although they arent majorly noisy neighbours during the day its more the not knowing when the noise will happen on the night and its just the worst. Its our first house as well :(

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