My brother is the most important person in my life with DH and DCs. We lost our mum when young and have always been there for each other.
He's getting married this year and I want to do something amazing for him, but am stuck for ideas.
We'd always said we'd go on a trip together for his 'stag do' and he always wanted to go to New York, as he's never left Europe. I'd always thought that's what we'd do but I've since had 2 DCs and seem to have developed major anxiety around being away from them and travelling.
I'm just not sure I can manage New York and feel like a massive letdown. Perhaps I could manage somewhere in Europe but it wouldn't be as special.
I've also tried to find ways to get his all time idol (a sportsperson) to record a message for him/the couple for the wedding day but no luck so far.
I've seen people doing dances/songs on wedding days for the couple but I have no such talent.
I know it's hard as you don't know him but if you've seen anything awesome at a wedding, send the ideas my way!