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Anyone alone this weekend?

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 14:27

My son is at last minute with his Dad and not me ( first time ever for new year). I am recovering from covid so just having an epic sofa day. It feels both ok (because rest is what I need) and shit (because I spend so much time alone as I'm ill anyway with ME).

All the 'what are you up to' threads show busy families with husbands and kids. If you are alone like me, what are you up to?

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QueenConsort · 31/12/2022 14:27

Hi 👋 I'm alone, kids going to their Dad's later. I'm just watching netflix.

MoreShit123 · 31/12/2022 14:28

Me! Getting pissed on bucks fizz and prosecco whilst watching Motherland. Detoxing from tomorrow

littlestowl · 31/12/2022 14:42

Me - kids were meant to be with me but last minute haven’t returned from
their dads. Had a big operation 6 weeks ago so have spent a lot of time alone so tbh feeling a bit sorry for myself. Should really rest and it’s grey and rainy. Currently taking down Xmas decorations.

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Winemygoodenemy · 31/12/2022 14:50

Me. My mum died 2 weeks ago suddenly and just got back from my dads. Helping him sort things out. I also managed to break my ankle whilst away. Had friends over day I got back.

Partner stayed over last night, but we were planning to spend new years apart at different parties as supposed to be together at Christmas but I had to be with family. I can’t go to mine now as in pain, can’t drive there (it’s in middle no where) and starting to grieve my mum - thanks to hormones made worse. He did offer to stay over tonight, but I know he was looking forward to his event so told him to go. He has gone.

Had a few friends invite me over, but I can’t be arsed with trying to get a taxi back and kind of want to be on my own. But also want my partner here. In a fickle mood.

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:10

QueenConsort · 31/12/2022 14:27

Hi 👋 I'm alone, kids going to their Dad's later. I'm just watching netflix.

Ohh me too. What you watching? I've accidentally watched documentary called Mischa and the wolves... I didn't even pick it...it started autoplaying so just left it on 😂🙈

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:10

MoreShit123 · 31/12/2022 14:28

Me! Getting pissed on bucks fizz and prosecco whilst watching Motherland. Detoxing from tomorrow

I like your style. I've just cracked a beer open. Cheers!

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QueenConsort · 31/12/2022 15:11

I'm watching liar, seen it before but forgot what happened

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:11

littlestowl · 31/12/2022 14:42

Me - kids were meant to be with me but last minute haven’t returned from
their dads. Had a big operation 6 weeks ago so have spent a lot of time alone so tbh feeling a bit sorry for myself. Should really rest and it’s grey and rainy. Currently taking down Xmas decorations.

Sit yourself down pet! Join us with netflix slobbery 😘

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MoreShit123 · 31/12/2022 15:13

ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:10

I like your style. I've just cracked a beer open. Cheers!

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Cheers 🍻 hic!

catmademedoit · 31/12/2022 15:13

@Winemygoodenemy 💐

Sorry for your loss

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:13

Winemygoodenemy · 31/12/2022 14:50

Me. My mum died 2 weeks ago suddenly and just got back from my dads. Helping him sort things out. I also managed to break my ankle whilst away. Had friends over day I got back.

Partner stayed over last night, but we were planning to spend new years apart at different parties as supposed to be together at Christmas but I had to be with family. I can’t go to mine now as in pain, can’t drive there (it’s in middle no where) and starting to grieve my mum - thanks to hormones made worse. He did offer to stay over tonight, but I know he was looking forward to his event so told him to go. He has gone.

Had a few friends invite me over, but I can’t be arsed with trying to get a taxi back and kind of want to be on my own. But also want my partner here. In a fickle mood.

I'm so sorry for your loss. You're allowed to be fickle. Sending love.

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:15

QueenConsort · 31/12/2022 15:11

I'm watching liar, seen it before but forgot what happened

Ohhh it's very watchable though silly 👍👍

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doris9034 · 31/12/2022 15:16

I'm on my own - was meant to be going to DPs kids house but got chest infection so decided I really didn't fancy the 3 hr drive and an evening with his exw!!! Would obvs prefer to be with him (as its also our anniversary too), but secretly enjoying the me time, drinking medicinal prosecco and watching all the crap TV!!

GrapefruitGin · 31/12/2022 15:16

Yep - dog can’t be left alone when fireworks are set off so my turn to stay home while the others enjoy a family party!

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:23

Cheers 🍻 @doris9034

@GrapefruitGin hope you and doggo can snuggle up and enjoy the peace!

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TellySavalashairbrush · 31/12/2022 15:33

Me. DH overseas and adult DC are doing their own thing. I hate NYE so I am hoping to be in bed by 10pm. Also hoping it continues to rain heavily here, stopping people who are having parties from coming out into their gardens and making noise . Yes, I am a miserable sod 😂

Sugaspunsista · 31/12/2022 15:36

Daughter is at her dad's tonight. Bucks fizz and whatever I want from the fridge for me :)

forrestgreen · 31/12/2022 15:43

Just me and the cat. I've bought a sharing bread and Camembert thing to cook later and I might add some pigs in blankets!!

littlestowl · 31/12/2022 15:45

ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 15:11

Sit yourself down pet! Join us with netflix slobbery 😘

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😁 That’s what my mate would say too!

bloodywhitecat · 31/12/2022 17:15

Me! well, not technically but my little one is non verbal with complex disabilities. It is my first NY without DH and I am dreading it as the arrival of 2023 feels like I am leaving him behind.

RandomCatGenerator · 31/12/2022 17:24

Me. DH and DS are away with friends for the weekend. I was meant to go too but childhood emotional and psychological abuse means I find Christmas very difficult and I’m totally washed out from the last week. So I needed a mental health day or two.

I need rest, and I’m glad I’m getting it, but I still feel a bit sad at being alone.

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 18:03

RandomCatGenerator · 31/12/2022 17:24

Me. DH and DS are away with friends for the weekend. I was meant to go too but childhood emotional and psychological abuse means I find Christmas very difficult and I’m totally washed out from the last week. So I needed a mental health day or two.

I need rest, and I’m glad I’m getting it, but I still feel a bit sad at being alone.

Aw... Sometimes we just have to do what we need...not what our ideal would be if things were different. In my case, my body is letting me down. I'm learning to be ok with looking after myself. Try and appreciate what you're doing for yourself. Xx

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ChristmasCrap · 31/12/2022 18:05

bloodywhitecat · 31/12/2022 17:15

Me! well, not technically but my little one is non verbal with complex disabilities. It is my first NY without DH and I am dreading it as the arrival of 2023 feels like I am leaving him behind.

I'm sorry for your loss Flowers

Day at a time sweetheart and if a day is too much, just an hour.

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ChristmasCrap · 01/01/2023 18:49

Hope everyone had a good day.

I have watched a movie, spoken to my mum , got accidentally tipsy and ordered a curry 😁

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bloodywhitecat · 01/01/2023 19:13

We went out and saw beasts! My New Year target is to get an off road wheelchair for this little one who loves being outside but his current wheelchair doesn't cope well on rougher terrain

Anyone alone this weekend?