As the title says. We wasn't close at all. But I loved her dearly & wish we had spent more time together, she was only 57 when she suffered a massive heart attack after a massive life change with her lovely husband. I want to say something at her funeral. But I have no words. Does anyone have any good links etc or words for me. I feel numb. I don't know what to say. I'd rather say something than sit and say nothing