So here it goes. Don't really expect any advice, just need a little rant. DH gets unwell all the fricking time. He works away, his time at work and home is about 50/50, he occasionally gets ill when he is away but mostly when he is at home, it's cold, flu, tonsillitis etc. And then he needs to go to bed for days and he's useless and pathetic, I'm the one taking care of children and I'm at my wits end. I suggested many times for him to see a doctor, he doesn't see any purpose of that, he says it's fine and he'll recover soon, I buy him vitamins to boost his immune system and it seems to work for a brief moment and then he stops taking them and gets sick again. I guess I'm lucky to be having a good health all my life and hardly ever get unwell but this is so frustrating, it's like I'm married to a wimp. I understand he isn't doing this on purpose but can't stop myself from being so annoyed and tired of this, it's exhausting. My gosh it feels so much better to tell this to someone.