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First date nerves!

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paradoxed · 02/12/2022 22:13

I am meeting a man for the first time tomorrow and I need some calming down please!
We have been talking nonstop for a couple of months so it feels like there's quite a lot riding on this date as we already like each other a lot and I'm feeling the pressure.
I'm scared we won't have anything to talk about because we've spoken about so much. I'm scared I won't look how he expects etc. and I'm not feeling confident!
I so want this to go well.
Help!!
How can I build up some confidence overnight?Grin this is so scary!

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Watchthesunrise · 02/12/2022 22:22

I would say do something physical and interesting on the morning before the date. Like taking a long walk, or bike ride. That way not only will you feel energized and happy, you'll also have something to talk about.

ZealAndArdour · 02/12/2022 22:27

Just go and enjoy yourself!

The last first date I went on started on Friday evening and ended Sunday afternoon. It was fabulous, it included sex a few times, loads of cuddles and chatting, watching multiple films, listening to music, a drive back to my house, a drive thru coffee, him meeting my pets, an early night to actually sleep, a long lazy Sunday morning breakfast in a pub, a walk in the park with more chatting and a coffee shop. We’re still absolutely infatuated with each other, when you know, you know.

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Dontsayyouloveme · 02/12/2022 22:53

‘ZealAndArdour’ so no pressure for the OP there then 🙄

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