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Olli Murs New song- controlling much??

22 replies

WhamBamThanksSam · 28/11/2022 10:33

Has anyone heard it? I’ve just heard it for the first time in radio2. So bizarre, he just sounds like one of them controlling boyfriends who hates their partners having a good night and holds it against them

it’s called ‘I hate you when you’re drunk’ and these are the lyrics

Verse 1]
Oh, you're slurrin' all your words, there's make-up on my shirt
You're dancin' on the tables, can't you see
That you look like a mess and you're singin' Whitney? (Woah-oh, oh-oh)
Oh, I hate you, hate you, I hate you, hate you when you're drunk

[Verse 2]
Oh, you got them drunken eyes, should we call it a night?
'Cause you've been tellin' stories four-five times
Yeah, I've heard it before and my ears are bleedin' (Woah-oh, oh-oh)
Oh, I hate you, hate you, I hate you, hate you when you're drunk

[Chorus]
Because you wanna buy champagne (Oh-ooh-oh)
And you wanna throw the shots back (Oh-oh)
And now you're takin' photographs (Oh-ooh-oh)
Why am I the only one that don't laugh? (Oh-oh)
Oh, I hate you, hate you, I hate you, hate you when you're drunk
So quit actin' like a fool
'Cause I hate you when you're drunk

[Verse 3]
Oh, it's funny how you won't remember anything
But baby, I'ma love you all the same
'Cause I'll pick you up, when you do it all again
Woah-oh-oh

[Chorus]
Because you wanna buy champagne (Oh-ooh-oh)
And you wanna throw the shots back (Oh-oh)
And now you're takin' photographs (Oh-ooh-oh)
Why am I the only one that don't laugh? (Oh-oh)
Oh, I hate you, hate you, I hate you, hate you when you're drunk
So quit actin' like a fool
'Cause I hate you when you're drunk

[Bridge]
Oh, when the morning comes, you'll blame it all on me
And when you ask for a hug, I got no sympathy
Because I hate you when you're drunk

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PeeJayDay · 28/11/2022 10:35

Ugh awful song

Icedlatteplease · 28/11/2022 10:37

Just Sounds like someone who doesn't like how there partner behaves when they are drunk. Not sure how that's controlling

BeautyGoesToBenidorm · 28/11/2022 10:37

Christ! My eyebrows raised reading those lyrics, they're bloody awful.

Joyfuljolly · 28/11/2022 10:39

Not seeing it. If my husband was behaving,like this I’d feel the same, not sure it makes me controlling?

TeenDivided · 28/11/2022 10:42

Possibly would have been better with 'hate it when you're drunk'.

Doesn't sound controlling to me, just wishing the partner wouldn't get so drunk.

hotelpink · 28/11/2022 10:43

What's the control element?

Charlieiscool · 28/11/2022 10:43

Not controlling, just letting her know she’s a bore to be around when she’s drunk.

Comefromaway · 28/11/2022 10:44

I wouldn't want to be with anyone who acted like that either. Those lyrics also refer to the morning after. People are often not nice when they are drunk.

AreolaGrande · 28/11/2022 10:52

Bizarre content for a pop song 😦

Not quite as dodgy as Brian McFadden's drunk girl song.

Consent? Never heard of her.

Mumof2amazingasdkiddos · 28/11/2022 10:58

Not sure it's controlling but it's certainly not a great song from reading the lyrics! Sure we can all get annoyed when someone is drunk and making a tit of themselves but this just made me uncomfortable reading it. I agree with another reply that I hate IT when your drunk would be better than I hate YOU

Blossomandbee · 28/11/2022 10:58

Haven't heard it but seems a weird song to write, very passive aggressive.

LuckySantangelo35 · 28/11/2022 11:00

It’s a horrific song
if my partner was like that about me whenever I was drunk i would bin him off
so spiteful and judgey

Softplayhooray · 28/11/2022 11:14

I mean I dated an alcoholic once and in his case this was fair so meh 😂

kingtamponthefurred · 28/11/2022 11:45

I haven't heard the song, but drunks are pretty disgusting.

Goldenbear · 28/11/2022 12:07

I haven't heard the song but not exactly profound are they!

Yes, sound controlling.

hotelpink · 28/11/2022 12:08

Goldenbear · 28/11/2022 12:07

I haven't heard the song but not exactly profound are they!

Yes, sound controlling.

Maybe you could tell us what's controlling, since OP doesn't seem to be returning yet?

Comefromaway · 28/11/2022 12:17

"Oh, when the morning comes, you'll blame it all on me"

This is the controlling, abusive behaviour. From the person the song is about.

walkinwardrobe · 28/11/2022 12:19

Well, drunk people are often annoying and difficult to deal with. There's nothing controlling in saying that.

musicalfrog · 28/11/2022 12:24

Unlikely to go down well in the clubs I'd have thought!

LoveBluey · 28/11/2022 12:27

I thought it was bizarre when I heard it the other day. Ordering champagne and taking photos isn't exactly the worst behaviour. If it was I hate having to hold your hair back while you vomit in the gutter he may have a point!

Faez · 28/11/2022 12:32

AreolaGrande · 28/11/2022 10:52

Bizarre content for a pop song 😦

Not quite as dodgy as Brian McFadden's drunk girl song.

Consent? Never heard of her.

Urghhh that actually made me feel anxious, I know too many guys like that unfortunately. He's driving so is sober and is letching on a really messed up girl, who ok'd this.

RaRaRaspoutine · 28/11/2022 13:18

Not really relevant but OM makes me the absolute opposite of turned on. He looks like a wizard turned Gordon the Gopher into a human being. I don't care if he loves me when I'm drunk or not.

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