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People who only ever seem to talk about themselves

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Typo22 · 12/11/2022 08:38

How do you deal with people who's soul topic of conversation is themself?

I find it so exhausting trying to have any type of conversation because I never seem to get a word in edgeways, I feel like I have something to say and I'm waiting to take my chance to jump in and when I do they continue to just talk over me.

I have a friend who is like this, she is a lovely person but when I'm with her we only ever talk about her, and anything I say is swept to one side.

My sister is also like this, to the point that I've actually told her that she was the most self obsessed person I know and pointed out in every conversation we have she never once asks me about my life or the kids. I find it so exhausting having hour long phone conversations where all I really say is "yeah" and "mmm" on repeat. I sometimes avoid answering but obviously she is my sister and I love her, I can't just permanently avoid her.

If you've come across this type of person, how do you deal with it?!

OP posts:
WinterLobelia · 12/11/2022 13:26

I have two main people like this. One is a woman in a club I belong to who only talks about how rich she is and if someone says anything else (like a recent convo about cost of living where her gem of a suggestion was 'I really recommend being mortgage free, it really helps'. ) turns it back to how much better she is at everything and another a friend I have now sadly decided to finish with. I have known her for 38 years and she only ever contacts me if she wants something and I can honestly say she does not even know the name of my younger son who is 11 years old (or at least, she always gets his name wrong, calling him (rough example) 'Josh' rather than 'Joseph'.

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