Toddler wont open up

[Itsokaymama]

my little girl is 3 and nursery have told me about an number of incidents that my DD has witnessed and also on one occasion her hair was pulled, but when i ask my DD about this she says it never happened. I dont know why she wont talk to me about whats happening and im really concerned. How can i get her to talk things over with me?

She’s three, she might not be able to express it or she might have already forgotten it.
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She's 3, she doesn't have the ability to talk to you about such things properly. She probably doesn't even remeber.

She might not remember.

There's been a few things that DS (3) hasn't told me.
The only thing he did say that was a little girl hit in in the face with a toy crane. He's said it for weeks. I only found out about the other incidents because I phoned the nursery to ask what happened... 🙄. They don't tell you, your child got hit which is ridiculous.

Him*

She won't have the language to process and talk about this.

I'd believe the nursery rather than her lack of comment.

Thank you everyone. I definitely believe it happened i was just worried that there could be a reason she didnt want to tell me, but it makes sense she is only young and is probably not seeing it as such a big deal maybe. @PinkButtercups Seems like a very similar situation, i noticed a change in her attitude towards nursery so asked the staff if anything had happened and thats when i found out.

I wouldn't worry, if my daughter falls over or has been poorly she is always in pure denial about it and doesn't want to talk about it.