Coldest thing anyone has ever done to you?

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Me… my ex partner left me and one dc when they were 6 weeks old and I was struggling physically. Never even talked to me about it, one morning he was gone, never seen him since.

That's pretty low, I wish a plague of a thousand penis locusts upon him.

My mother refused to come to DH's funeral. I am the lesser offspring in the family and I divorced my ex H so I think I brought shame upon the family.

things done to my grandma and grandpa by their evil daughter in law.

1. Refusing to take my grandpa to hospital when he was sick.
2. Refusing to let grandma inform her daughters overseas about their father's death. Insisting that they don't need to come back for their funeral.
3. Many years later, when my grandmother was ill; refusing to tell any family members about her illness. Then after I took her to hospital and she came back home, the daughter-in-law took away my grandmother's medicine to stop internal bleeding. Everyday, she made a cup of coffee to give to her husband to bring to his mum (my grandma ) to drink. When I found out, I paid for private nursing and for the nurse to give the medicine. The nurse would take the coffee and said,I will make her drink it later,it's too hot. Then she poured it down the sick.
4. Refusing the private doctor to enter my grandma's home to see her. She was begging the doctor to come in but the daughter in law refused.

My Mum died last week.
When I phoned her partner of 25 years daughter to tell her she said she was sorry but then told me that all the money in my mum and her Dads joint account was now his and I couldn’t touch it.
Bitch

After my father died when I was a teenager - his mother told DM that she (GM) didn't see the point of me visiting her as 'we had nothing in common.'

With hindsight, and knowing what stirrer DM could be, I've often wondered if GM did say that; or if it she did, it was directed at DM, who she hated for running off with her golden child.

Ex SIL stole my babies pram and cot from storage because she decided I didn't need them anymore as my daughter died at 2 weeks old.

My mother telling me that she knew I was having an affair with her husband when I was a child but she forgave me (I was 11 and he was 50)

After my son died my mother telling me that he was the only good thing that I had ever done and that I'm worthless now.

Ex husband laughing at me after my daughter died because karma got me for being such a cunt, after all "who has two kids die on them" (my son died a few years before I met him)

After my Ex husband gave me a black eye I temporarily moved in with my mother, she told Ex everything I did, and a couple of weeks later moved him in and told me I could be homeless if I didn't like it (I took my son to go live in a b&b) and they both conspired to get my son removed from me, telling me I was calling my son my firstborns name etc.

My mother calling SS on me every 3 months to try and get my kids removed from me because she was jealous that her friend had custody of her grandchild. She was batshit and made stuff up out of thin air. SS eventually stopped responding to anonymous reports for me.

There's probably a billion more from those 2. Glad they are out of my life entirely now.

My best friend told me one day when we were 17 that he thought our friendship was ‘beneath him’ because we’d chosen different uni courses and completely disappeared from my life. This is someone I was in constant contact with and spent most of our free time together, and to whom my mum had offered a room in our home in case his own parents didn’t take it well when he came out. Took me a very long time to trust any new friends after he did that.

My sperm donor sent me a text that said "Your sister is dead. Tell your brother - sperms donors full name".