Tonight I did my usual ‘wake up at 4ish and can’t get back to sleep so grab my phone and scroll FB’. My grown up (early 20s) DNephew sent a message pretty soon after I picked up my phone saying he had no electricity and could I send him some money. We’re a really close family (although he’s more distant then others) and I know from my mum he’s going through a tough time in general. After worrying it was a scam and making sure it wasn’t first, I did send him some money. It’s the first time he’s asked. I’m just worrying what’s going on with him. He was pretty desperate for the money. I’ll be speaking to family members later but can’t go back to sleep now for worry. DP’s also not a happy chap because I woke him to ask what I should do and he has to be up in 20 mins for work!🙈 I know nobody can advise really-just a bit shaken I suppose and worried for him.