I have put on a lot of weight over the last couple of years as I can’t exercise due to injury so I’m feeling fat, old & generally down. Chatting to a colleague at work today & telling him that my shorts keep falling down as they’re mens’ ones. He asked if I had a belt & I said I wasn’t sure I had one that fitted as I’d put on so much weight. He said “ You’re not that big” which actually was ok coming from him as he’s extremely overweight & then he said “ You’re lovely”. It could have been sleazy & inappropriate but it absolutely wasn’t as he’s the sweetest guy. Really did make my day!