My ex earns a lot of money. I used to earn a decent amount but not sure what I will do after maternity. He has refused to enable about finances and when I went to cms he asked for a dna test!! That was done and he started to pay but I know for a fact he must have done something with his money as the online calculator is showing a very different amount to what he’s paying. The person at cms said this can amount to domestic abuse in the form of finances, is that right? I feel like I am being pushed around by him even now, after a load of other grief he caused me emotionally when together. I am exhausted.