We've had some concerns about DS (8) for a few years. He exhibits some Add traits, and parents evenings are continually flagging lack of focus. We think he's improved massively over the last year with this, but he's still quite scattered.
He's very bright, but his writing and reading are average.
However, on the other hand he's incredibly well regulated emotionally, sleeps well. Can focus on loads of things like swimming class, when we read with him at home, drawing, playing board games etc.
He's a very confusing picture.