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Ended because he’s to busy…

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Georgiarule · 19/10/2022 20:51

After 10 years of back and fourth I’d finally been seeing this guy for the past few months. I was very reserved about starting something after so many years of back and fourth. Everything had been going great then suddenly he’s become more busy with his business. We’re both pretty busy work wise anyways. This last week he’s been barely speaking to me and finally rung be today to say whilst he has feelings he feels I reserve more and he’ll be busy till after Christmas.

For me if we can’t work though this busy time there is no future and I’ve told him he’s risking losing me forever. He wants to take this risk, told me to not wait for him. I just don’t understand how he can expect me to believe he was ever interested or still is….

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IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 19/10/2022 20:53

He doesn't expect you to wait - he is not bothered about this relationship.

Signeduptosimplyreplytothis · 19/10/2022 20:54

He's "busy" not busy. He's dumping you without dumping you

ChonkyDonkey · 19/10/2022 21:02

10 YEARS? of back and forth? Are you nuts?

DoodlePug · 19/10/2022 21:07

Is this like 10 years of flirting then finally getting together?

It sounds like the flirting was more fun, he's not up for a relationship.

Very, very definitely do move on. Everyone deserves a good relationship.

FuckingHell123 · 19/10/2022 21:10

People make time for what matters

Georgiarule · 19/10/2022 21:28

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 19/10/2022 20:53

He doesn't expect you to wait - he is not bothered about this relationship.

This is how I feel even though I wouldn’t wait

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Georgiarule · 19/10/2022 21:28

Signeduptosimplyreplytothis · 19/10/2022 20:54

He's "busy" not busy. He's dumping you without dumping you

This is what I also said. I said he’s wasted my time and I’ll just wait for him to have a new gf

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Georgiarule · 19/10/2022 21:29

ChonkyDonkey · 19/10/2022 21:02

10 YEARS? of back and forth? Are you nuts?

We both had relationships in this time

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Georgiarule · 19/10/2022 21:30

DoodlePug · 19/10/2022 21:07

Is this like 10 years of flirting then finally getting together?

It sounds like the flirting was more fun, he's not up for a relationship.

Very, very definitely do move on. Everyone deserves a good relationship.

Flirting

I said this to him. He also said he’d be upset if I met someone tomorrow

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Georgiarule · 19/10/2022 21:30

FuckingHell123 · 19/10/2022 21:10

People make time for what matters

Which is what I think as well

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