That other thread got me thinking.
I'm in my 40s with teenage children. I work full time. My friends are:
Friend A - always a pleasure to see her. We get together every couple of months.
Friend B - lives about an hour away. I see her every 3 or 4 months. I try to be in phone contact more often. Constant sense of guilt that I'm not available enough for her.
Friend C (and family) - useful friends because all the kids get on, her husband is also nice, and we have shared interests. Haven't seen them for 3 months. Feel bad about that.
Plus some old friends who live on the other side of the world. We speak a couple of times a year.
Plus a couple of nice colleagues who know far more about my life than my friends do.
What about you?