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Today it's my rapists birthday

14 replies

Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 24/09/2022 23:36

.. and I survived.

Just need a little hug, that's all.

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Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 24/09/2022 23:44

To be fair, only 15 mins more😔

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beststepforward · 24/09/2022 23:45

So sorry this happened to you OP 💐 he doesn't deserve your thoughts.

Ladyofthepeonies · 24/09/2022 23:45

Bless you and keep you safe you survived. Do t given them a minute or second thought

Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 24/09/2022 23:46

I'm less sore than I was. More blaze as to why men rape. Not underfunded, under-loved men but privileged men. I guess because they can?

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vipersnest1 · 24/09/2022 23:47

Here's a hug.
For no other reason that you deserve it. Flowers

Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 24/09/2022 23:48

Feel bad for those behind me. He's a loved, successful man. Not a bad man per say but a man who did a bad thing, isn't that the strange paradox that is being a human? I wish it hadn't been me.

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RosieRainbow1986 · 24/09/2022 23:48

Thinking of you ans sending you strength and support ❤️

ColourfulCobra · 24/09/2022 23:49

Thinking of you and sending a hug 💐

Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 24/09/2022 23:50

Still think often, how men who are capable of good things, make bad choices: and how that affects normal women like me. I don't think he was a bad soul, rather he made bad choices: I was a casualty. His wife. Got better. No words. I lost. She gained ☹️

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2020nymph · 24/09/2022 23:56

Oh love, I'm so sorry you experienced this. It was not your fault and he is a bad man.

Sending hugs Flowers

Bestbeforenoon · 24/09/2022 23:58

Sending you a big hug 🤗
I know your pain, mine was 42 years ago now.
He was a family member and I was 11.
I spoke out at 29 and I"ve had no contact with my family since. Your faith in humanity is something I envy. ❤️

Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 24/09/2022 23:59

I wish rape wasn't a thing.

One more minute. And it's not my yearly dread xxx

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Pleasegivemeyourwisdom · 25/09/2022 00:02

Ps. At 11: I was 16, I'm sorry 😞 16 was bad enough. I was so naive. Didn't have a clue what assault would to my body. Let alone my spirit.

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Bestbeforenoon · 25/09/2022 00:08

@Pleasegivemeyourwisdom ❤️You are clearly a lovely person..xx

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