Dp and I have been arguing through this point quite a bit recently and neither of us are giving up on being the one who is right and so I thought I would ask for impartial opinions on here.
Parent A works Mon-Wed 8.30-5 or 9-5.30. A then does all childcare and school runs Thurs-Sun. A also does all of the cleaning, washing, meal planning, shopping, everything child related and 90% of the cooking.
Parent B works Thurs-Sun 2-9.30pm. B does childcare during A's working hours and DIY and garden jobs. B feels they can't function when waking up early and so wants A to take the dc to breakfast club on Mon-Wed mornings before work.
A thinks this is unfair to A and the dc but is willing to do this. A doesn't think that A should have to pay anything for the breakfast club as there is no need to be spending money on childcare.
Money is set up so that B sends a set amount to A each month and then A pays all of the bills, shopping etc and then both have a similar amount of spare money although A spends a fair chunk on things for the dc and B does not. Money is tight and breakfast club takes a sizeable proportion of B's spare money.
So, who is right here?