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What would you do?

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Trainlife · 05/09/2022 14:18

So, on Saturday I travelled 2.5 hours to meet a guy. (Second date) and when I got there, he stood me up. (his phone was off)

I promptly blocked him and he has been ever since. My question is, would you confront a person that stood you up? I’ve been mulling it over the weekend and one side of me wants to but then I’m undecided.

I’m not as hurt as I could be. I’m more annoyed that I traveled that far, and wasted money, just to ride a few trains.

What would you do?

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girlmom21 · 05/09/2022 14:24

I wouldn't bother. What's the point? If he cared he'd have apologised. He'll only make up some shit excuse.

QuattroFormaggi · 05/09/2022 14:26

Keep him blocked! It feels so unintuitive but you'll get through it...will only take til Friday in my experience. You won't know when it comes back to bite him but it will, and you have to take comfort in that. I've been there and had to literally put my phone elsewhere to remove the temptation to text.
Also, he'll doubtless turn up on another dating site....
STAY STRONG👍

Homemadearmy · 05/09/2022 14:28

Totally agreed with pp. What excuse could he possibly give . Blocking him was the right move

Trainlife · 05/09/2022 14:28

@QuattroFormaggi @girlmom21 thank you.

Yeah, I didn’t even want an explanation when I blocked him, I just said “thanks for that” and blocked and he’s stayed blocked.

I just think it’s an awful thing to do to a person. /:

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