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If you were about to d!e..

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Cyprusx · 03/09/2022 21:40

If you were about to d!e, and you were allowed the answer to one question.. what would it be?

Who loved me the most out of all my relationships?

What happened to >insert unsolved crime/mystery<?

Was I a good parent / child?

I saw this on Tiktok and honestly have spent days trying to come up with one!

What would yours be?

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FayeGovan · 03/09/2022 21:47

Will my kids be ok?

Nothing else matters

October2020 · 03/09/2022 21:49

What can I do with my last moments to make sure my child knows that she was loved and has the inbuilt belief, courage etc in herself she will need to make it through the world without me?

That would be the only thing that mattered to me.

Clymene · 03/09/2022 21:52

Yay all I care about is if my kids are going to be ok.

Nothing else is important.

Who loved me most? That's like something a teenager asks

dontgobaconmyheart · 03/09/2022 21:53

What will happen afterwards (after I die) - I think I'd just really like to know if there were more, if I'll be with loved ones who'd passed, or if there's nothing. If I'm not going to be here then I don't really think anything earthside actually matters (I have no DC or dependents before anyone takes objection to a lack of due concern for any!)

abovedecknotbelow · 03/09/2022 22:09

Will my kids be ok, as pp nothing else matters

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 03/09/2022 22:10

Did my dog forgive me for not realising.

LaPerduta · 03/09/2022 22:12

FFS, "die" is not a swear word!

Mine would be, "Why did I never get to have a decent relationship?"

Kanaloa · 03/09/2022 22:13

I don’t know. It just depends. I probably would want to ask if my kids would be ok too, but what if the answer is ‘no?’ Then what happens? I think it’s a bit like arguing if there’s life after death etc - I may be a bit dull but I’d rather not know because the pain of not knowing is incomparable to the agony of knowing sometimes.

WeAllHaveWings · 03/09/2022 22:15

FayeGovan · 03/09/2022 21:47

Will my kids be ok?

Nothing else matters

Absolutely agree nothing else matters. But what if the answer is not what you want to hear. I would be too scared to ask that one.

NetballHoop · 03/09/2022 22:17

How do I stop this from happening?

MrsMcisaCt · 03/09/2022 22:20

If I was about to die, I would tell my loved ones that I loved them and wouldn't want answers to any questions.

SavingsThreads · 03/09/2022 22:20

FayeGovan · 03/09/2022 21:47

Will my kids be ok?

Nothing else matters

But what if the last thing you hear is 'no'?

MolkosTeenageAngst · 03/09/2022 22:24

I don’t have kids so probably the unsolved mystery. Or maybe what I’m going to miss on an unfinished TV series!

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Cyprusx · 03/09/2022 22:27

MolkosTeenageAngst · 03/09/2022 22:24

I don’t have kids so probably the unsolved mystery. Or maybe what I’m going to miss on an unfinished TV series!

Which mystery would you choose? Id have to go with, Madeleine McCann or The zodiac killer!

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Cyprusx · 03/09/2022 22:29

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 03/09/2022 22:10

Did my dog forgive me for not realising.

🥺🥺 Im sure he/she forgave you x

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SpindleInTheWind · 03/09/2022 22:30

Well as long as you're entertained, that's the main thing, eh?

Buttingtons · 03/09/2022 22:30

Who killed Tupac.

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Cyprusx · 03/09/2022 22:31

Buttingtons · 03/09/2022 22:30

Who killed Tupac.

Omg yesss

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SunnyD44 · 03/09/2022 22:31

I wouldn’t care who loved me the most.

I know I’m an ok parent and do the best I can.

I was a difficult teenager but I could have been worse and feel I’ve made up for it.

So I think I’d go with the unsolved case and probably choose Madeline Mcann as that’s something I think about a lot.

SunnyD44 · 03/09/2022 22:32

Oh yes I change my mind! Who killed Tupac 100% if he is dead 😁

Afterfire · 03/09/2022 22:32

Having been in situations where I’ve nearly died several times my last thoughts / words have always been “oh fuck” closely followed by “well that’s that then”. I wouldn’t have the ability to process a question and answer I don’t think!

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Cyprusx · 03/09/2022 22:38

SpindleInTheWind · 03/09/2022 22:30

Well as long as you're entertained, that's the main thing, eh?

Yours should be, 'why do i comment on things that i dont care about' x

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MissMarpleRocks · 03/09/2022 22:40

Who is the actual/real ‘H’?

I didn’t watch & rewatch all those episodes of LoD for it to be some twat whose name I can’t even remember!

I wouldn’t want to know about my dcs as the pain of them not being ok would be horrendous. Afterlife? Well I will soon be finding out.

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Cyprusx · 03/09/2022 22:40

Afterfire · 03/09/2022 22:32

Having been in situations where I’ve nearly died several times my last thoughts / words have always been “oh fuck” closely followed by “well that’s that then”. I wouldn’t have the ability to process a question and answer I don’t think!

If it was peaceful, could ask why those other times werent your last?..

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WeAllHaveWings · 03/09/2022 22:40

Who killed Mary? (heard the son last week 😂)

Or next weeks lotto number so I could tell ds them!