or is it pot luck really and they are all much of a muchness?
when I was younger, I wanted someone good looking, fit, etc but now after various disappointments/lucky escapes, I would like to meet someone who is patient, kind and funny - these are way more important to me than looks - I find men attractive so much more if they are just nice people - ok there has to be physical attraction but I am not looking for a good looking tosspot.
I have had relationships with men who were nice looking and well off but incredibly selfish or impatient or who would negg me and now I just want to go out, enjoy life, see shows, films, laugh, walk and have a holiday, listen to music and laugh alot.
Just wondered if any apps are better than others - not looking for just sex although would like some of that too! thanks so much.