OK, so what do I do about this "friend"

[Alldelicious]

I've know him forever. Since we were both married, but we're not now. We had lot to drink so perfectly possible tonlretend it never happened!

We've been out today. Initially with friends for drinks and to see a bank holiday afternoon band, then we went on dancing just the two of us.

We had a fantastic day/evening. Lots of pretty intimate dancing and we walked back to the train hand in hand. Then said goodbye as if we were distant relatives 😆

I just don't know what to do. There's definitely a spark, but he's not really my "type" and I don't think I'm his. He usually goes for much younger more glamorous types, one of the reasons he's not my type. And if it a goes wrong between us it would ruin our friendship groups, but....

You both flirted but reverted back to safe position of don’t go there
hence the cool send off after a hot flirtation
If you genuinely think he’s not your type leave it be as a fun frisson but nowt else

That's a very sensible answer, thank you