Hello , I wondered if anybody has done this before . I’m totally frustrated and stressed out with lack of correct information and being passed from pillar to post for basic medical care.
heres the issue
terrible frequent ruination , massive disruption to every day life - can not go anywhere with no toilet now so nice walks and things are off limits , pressurenin pelvic area I went to the nurse for my smear test hoping she would at least examine me as I was desperate , lack of sleep due to waking for the toilet and tender from the constant weeing and wiping , sore hands from excessive hand washing (combined with dermatitis) unfortunately period started the morning I was due my smear so the nurse wouldn’t touch me and wouldn’t examine either , I explained I had sn upcoming appointment with the gp again for the urinary problems and nurse said gp could do the smear test for me while she did a speculum exam Gp diagnosed cystocele but thinks I also have an over active bladder, she wasn’t able to do me a smear as she said she isn’t certified for this, she referred me to be seen by the continence nurse who could do the smear at the same time sd fitting a pessary and whatever else. Anyway , fast. Forward.I think I’m likely to get my period around the time of the appointment so I’ve asked what to do to delay as I’m really wanting smear done. ASAP ( aunt died aged 36 of cervical cancer so it’s always top priority and I was due it in June) I’m told this time by text message the continence team will not do a smear for me and I’ll have to re book that with a practice nurse! My problem is I habe absoloutley nobody to help me and I can only do a Monday due to it being my husbands day off , the practice rarely has any appointments on these days that are in the near future they are often months in advance I can’t really bring 3 children to that sort of appointment either and my parents work full time husbands parents aren’t around and friends all working . . I’m a bit worried because I’ve only last week just started taking pills again after the break so I’m not sure it will delay my period ? I’ve never done this before but I feel so deflated and exhausted I just want help as it’s been going on for a long time , any experience or advice appreciated. Really want to keep to my appointment but feel so stressed with being told different things. Really sorry for the massive ramble and terrible grammar x