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When will gingerism go away?

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Anna373 · 14/07/2022 06:12

So im not ginger myself but why are gingers the only demographic which you can openly hate or make fun of and get away with it?

Because the other day At work I heard these women talking about babies and then one said "well what if your baby is ginger" in which she replied "well I wouldnt mind having a daughter who is ginger because they are pretty but ginger men are mingers" which they all laughed.

It seems like ginger men get more abuse or are considered ugly while ginger women are more sexually fetishized

My brother also has a good mate who is ginger but apparently he still gets people shouting names at him and even trying to fight him just because he is ginger.

I've never understood this hate for ginger people, its just a hair color in fact I think it can act like an amplifier and make someone look ever more attractive. Gingers also seem to age pretty well and apprently never go grey

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catandcoffee · 19/07/2022 22:37

I saw the most stunning bright ginger female with the whitest shiny skin.

Honestly her skin tone was amazing... and she looked very confident.

Cherrysoup · 19/07/2022 22:39

I have 2 gingers in my form. I’m ginger. One of them told me today that gingers are getting into the local cinema for free. I’m tempted to try it!

user143677433 · 19/07/2022 22:52

MercurialMonday · 19/07/2022 12:09

This exactly. It’s anti-Irish racism.

I thought it was anti-Irish and possibly older lingering anti scots discrimination.

I like red hair in all shades and there was a chance our kids could have it but no all dark brown. In FIL family the red heads do stay red a long while and also go white not red in my DMum family it was strawberry blond that went more sandy brown with age then mix of grey/white.

Well documented historically to be anti Irish in England, and anti semitic across southern Europe and North Africa.

ShippingNews · 19/07/2022 22:59

Not true that they don't go grey . My in laws are all ginger, and they all have gone / are going grey

BottlingBurpsForGrandma · 19/07/2022 23:17

Does anyone remember this advert from 2000ish?

As a 12 year old ginger haired girl, it was awful. My mum switched energy company over it!

I haven't been bullied for my red hair as such but the obsession with pube colour was tiresome in my late teens / early 20s.

One of my DC has the most beautiful, vibrant ginger hair. I was over the moon when I had them 🤗

When will gingerism go away?
Floydthebarber · 19/07/2022 23:20

I think it has already stopped. A friend of mine has a grandson who has ginger hair. He is just the same as anyone with black, brown or blonde hair. He is in junior school.

MyMigraineAndMe · 19/07/2022 23:25

I agree it’s bizarre. I’ve always assumed that it’s just a kind of widespread running joke, and that having red hair is such a benign trait that no one can really take it seriously.

MistressIggi · 19/07/2022 23:38

I teach in Scotland, I hear quite a lot of negative comments (usually phrased as "jokes") despite there being a decent proportion of red-haired teens - I don't think it is racist given they are all Scottish, but I wonder if it is a chance to say something mean, since they know they can't say racist/homophobic stuff they way they might once have done.
I always pull up anyone who does this, and usually get a "he doesn't mind" and have to say that's not the point (and he might well mind, at heart!) I do think if they can, that laughing it off (or pretending too) is the best approach for a teenager - though it should not happen in the first place.

Britishignorance · 20/01/2025 19:36

Brits aren't known for there I telligance Especially the low life's who shout from cars

MistressIggi · 21/01/2025 08:18

Not that intelligent either to post on a clearly Zombie thread is it?

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