Just want to feel ‘sexy’ again

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mine and DP’s DS is 7mo

Since he’s been here our sex life has been minimal, here and there. One or two Really good times for me

but I feel like DP doesn’t find me sexy anymore. He never had the highest sex drive anyway it was always me who did but now I feel I want to feel like me again and feel attractive and half the time I just think he’s having sex with me as a chore

He assures me that’s not the case but he just never seems to want to have sex much? Not sure if I’m overthinking but I just want to feel nice again

When I had a DD at 7 months I was pleased just to have a shower and properly style my hair in peace! I'm not even sure I was over eager for sex at that point.
Having a baby is a huge shock to your lifestyle and probably your DP is feeling that too. He's probably tired too and exhausted rather than not fancying you.
Be kind to yourself.

I haven't felt sexy since having kids, and mine are teenagers now!