My Mum passed away last year, and I was left a not huge, but reasonable amount of money. In the region of £20k.
I have used some to pay off a car loan and bought some house hold items.
I also decided to use some of the money to completely redo my daughter's room. She is 12, and her room had not been decorated since she was 5. So all new furniture, carpet, bedding etc. It came to £2500.
I also have a son who is 23. I would like to give him the same amount in cash that I spent on his sister.
Do you think that this is fair on both of them?