HI my son is 22 now diagnosed too late by nhs at 18 with autsim so most likely has other comorbidity due to getting zero help. Anyhoo here wwe are present day faceing challenges of alchoholism and depression to the point of him nearly attempting it but didn't as he said he saw me go through depression inthe lock down and because he said because he saw i didn't kill myself as I wanted to be around for him he thought he should do the same for me etc. So you can see this is no joke and sadly a very serious discussion and in need of help .We try medication and nhs doc and all we got there was yes he autisic here is some prozac..end result did not work as no drugs will cure autism and the prozac he didn't take properly due to his sleep is all over place he can be awake for days sometimes. I know if he has possible bipolar he should be forced to go docs and take meds I get that , but he display possibly only one of those four categories that would say you had it and that is even in the milder bi polar2. We already know he has OCD ..so it could be autism/ocd and straight up depression as he was sometimes a happy boy in the past, but we moved and he lost his friends from where we used to live and then pandemic hit so we became isolated etc and that natural shift into mkaing friends in a new enviromant was stopped and due to his autism and late diagnosis etc eveything now compounded into him being very depressed etc etc.
He has stated to me he wishes to try natural ways to help himself ie not drugs from doc. He also self medicates i suspect and/or is alchoholic at this point and he emotional blackmail me said if he didn't get his alchohol then he would kill himself most likely as the drink makes him feel better to the point where he doesn't want to do it or that life is bearable.
I have seen all this stuff about the cannabis oil on you tube and it is in the states is legal there they have proper docs etc that prescribe it etc etc but how we gonna do that or get that in this country? I know of one friend who is autistic and adult friend of mine who smokes a lot of it to medicate rather than drugs from doc and must say am astounded at how well they do in life compared to another friend who also autistic adult who went down the other road and takes meds from doc and was given that since younger and they also take illegal hardcore drugs and there life is a train wreck and they most likely will not survive past 55. This is why I am a bit anti drugs with some mental health issues if it can be avoided as the use of pill popping from a young age can result in that being the go to later in life and not always the prescribed ones from docs. I know this is not case with all but I have seen this in my own life first hand. I also Know cannabis oil used to get them of the alchoHol..I have a sneaking suspicion that if i go docs with him they just go to put him on mainstream drugs again and the fight to get cannabis will be like getting blood out of a stone..any help appreciated:)