Sex and dating

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Do most men expect sex on the first date?

Men that I’ve been talking I make sure they know im
looking for a long term relationship and nothing casual and ive mentioned that nothing physical until we get to know each other - I’m generally ghosted.

what am I doing wrong?

Are you on the wrong forums perhaps?

I'm sorry I have no personal experience but from what I've heard, you have to choose carefully.

You’re not doing anything wrong, you just haven’t met the right guys for you. Everyone has preferences and you’re not wrong for wanting what you want. But not everyone is going to match what you want. I’ve found all the dating apps have slightly different vibes eg some more set up for finding a relationship and others for sex, so maybe you can experience with different apps?

All men are after one thing (A man told me this) so from the horses mouth! I don't think you are doing anything wrong saying you want a relationship if that's what you want but I wouldn't say no sex till we know eachother better, it comes off a bit serious. I'd hold off on sex if that's what you want of course I just wouldn't say that. It takes the mystery away of what if?! Keep them guessing and play it cool. Sorry if I haven't put that very well but hopefully you know what I mean.