Me and my partner have split up and we've got a four month old.. AIBU when I call him controlling and call him out for gaslighting me asking me to take photos of when I'm out and who I'm out with and when I'm at home,always making me feel bad for going out with family or even friends... always asking me to do more so he can actually trust me,so I ended it with no where else to go with this relationship but now I'm feeling bad for calling it off and calling him out even though he thinks he's doing nothing wrong and getting defensive😠I mean I know none of this is right but I did everything to keep him happy and it's not a way to live😠so should I be feeling bad? I don't know