Doesn't matter which kind of social media/website or what type of group etc etc, but have you found a group of people that you just fit right in with? I've always thought that it was a bit of a weird idea to be honest, but I found group of my people on a facebook group about sheep, and it's bloody amazing, all of the answers to all of the questions, recognition of your lifestyle, possibly too many photographs of the back end of a ewe at lambing time, but pretty much a great informative and supportive place for those with a shared interest.
It's made me re-think my idea of a feeling of a community which possibly says more about me really, but I'd always used groups/sites on a bit of a dip in and out as required, but I've realised that I'd be quite gutted if the group got disbanded.
Not going to mention the group name, no need to really, it could be any group for anything that you just slide right in to.