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Was he weird or am I?

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ClinicallyProven · 10/06/2022 11:57

I was out for a run this morning. A beautiful day here, so I decided to stroll the last half mile home in the sunshine.

After walking for a few minutes a postman said hello. Not just a cursory "morning" but an I'm really pleased to see you hello, which momentarily made me think he must be someone I knew.

Then he fell in beside me, chatting about what a lovely day it is.

The whole thing lasted a minute or two and then we went in separate directions.

It unsettled me though. This "strange" man intruding into my day/time/space. I was sweaty and wearing skimpy running kit, so maybe that contributed to my unease.

Anyway, was it an odd thing for him to do or is my reaction odd? It made me a bit sad that I found it odd TBH, I guess perfectly normal in the days of a friendly local postie and probably still in some communities, but here in a large town in the SE, definitely unusual.

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NohoHank · 10/06/2022 12:09

He was probably just being friendly. My husbands a postie and loves to have a chat if people are willing. It's quite lonely spending the day on your own doing the rounds.
Or he fancies you 🤷🏽‍♀️.
I don't think either of you were weird. It's ok to feel uncomfortable with it and it's ok for him to be friendly having a chat.

WandaLust101 · 12/06/2022 09:28

When I used to go out running I would often get unwanted attention from men. And comments too. In the end I stopped running I found it so annoying and unpleasant.

it’s not really about the fact he’s a postman - he intruded on your personal space and made you feel uncomfortable. My guess is probably because you were out in your running gear.

Not unreasonable to feel the way that you do. Not in the slightest.

Justcallmebebes · 12/06/2022 09:31

No, he wasn't weird

alwaysmovingforwards · 12/06/2022 09:37

No, neither of you is weird.

Mount2Climb · 12/06/2022 09:46

Chatting you up or friendly. I wouldn't say weird. Some men like the sweaty sporty look!

Adamantspants · 12/06/2022 09:48

Nothing weird in that whatsoever.

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