We lost my beloved 17yo pussy cat a few months ago and I was forced by friends and family into getting her ashes back, which I didn't want to do but here we are.
The ashes are just sitting in a box in the corner as I've no idea what to do with them.
She was an indoor cat, so no place to spread them except a tiny spot of long grass in the garden she would lie in, but the dogs also dig there.
I've looked at memorial jewellery, but don't want ashes inside an empty container round my neck - I'd rather a diamond type item, but the cost is terrifying. Not too sure I like the resin jewellery, it looks a bit cheap and like it won't last long?
Most of the cat shaped urns are, erm, weird, but she's also a long haired cat and none of the urns seem to look at that. Do they even put the ashes into memorial glass items like they claim or will I just be ripped off?
It feels wrong to just throw the ashes somewhere she's never been.
I wish I'd stuck to my guns.
WWYD?